#Lovelanguages are so important because that is is how your partner needs to be loved.
Based off of experience, knowing your partners love language can improve your realtionship immensely! Learning each other’s love language was a turning point in our relationship.
When we say this was a turning point in our relationship, we mean it made us stronger, more connected, a better team and most importantly made know learn to love each other better.
When you take this quiz, it takes like 5 mins, it will tell you in order what your love languages are from most compatible to least. The 5 love languages are physical touch, quality time, acts of service, words of affirmation & receiving gifts.
Whatever you find your partners love language to be is how you should focus on loving them and whatever you find yours to be is how your partner should focus on loving you. Ours are complete opposite so we did have to adjust.
#1 - physical touch
This one would be like kissing, holding hands, touching, caressing or hugging. Basically anything that has to do with a physical motion towards your partner. Focus on things your partner has asked you to do to them and do them more often!
#2 - quality time
For instance, this is one of Stephens top love languages and he always wants to show me things he found exciting or amusing on his phone and that would be considered quality time. I’m dedicating my time to hearing him out and listening to what is making him happy. #Qualitytime is also literally uninterrupted time with your partner, no phones, no distractions, nothing.
"There’s only one thing more precious than our time and that’s what we spend it on." – Leo Christopher
#3 - acts of service
This is one of mine, it makes my day if Stephen does the dishes without me asking or gets me a cup of coffee without me asking, for instance. It’s literally the littlest things with love language. If you’ve noticed a certain action you do for your partner makes them happy or in a better mood, then do it more!
#4 - words of affirmation
This one is all about #compliments and reassuring words. Word that make your partner feel loved, thought of and just good about themselves. Be observant and if you notice something different about your partner, and this is one of their love languages, you should tell them!
#5 - receiving gifts
This one would consist of gift giving at random times to your partner and to surprise them with things they like more than you would think!
With that said…
Again, love languages have changed our realtionship and we’re confident they’ll change yours too! Take the quiz linked earlier and start working on the love languages for you and your partner.
If you want to see a more in depth video about this topic, click here!
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